How to deal with different sex drives

Some people want sex every day and some people want it once a month. So, what do you do when you’re in a relationship and your sex drives are miles apart? How to deal with different sex drives isn’t really that difficult. First of all, know that you are not alone. More often than you…

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Benefits of Masturbation

For many, the idea of touching yourself carries baggage.  Some people are told that masturbation is harmful, shameful or wrong.  Science however says the opposite – there are a whole heap of benefits of masturbation.   We’re here to arm you with all the knowledge you need. History of Masturbation Masturbation is definitely nothing new.  Prehistoric…

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Beginners Guide to Blindfolding

While blindfolding is a common, easy-to-enact fantasy, it can also cause anxiety for the partner being blindfolded. As with all things kinky, it’s not something you should rush into. Our Beginners Guide to Blindfolding will help you prepare and build trust so your blindfolding can become an intensely erotic and blissfully vulnerable experience. Talk First…

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Sexual Wellness products

When most people think of sex toys the first thing that comes to mind is dildos, vibrators and handcuffs.  What few of them realise is that there is whole other side to the sex toy industry that focuses on sexual wellness and education products. Leading the way now are CalExotics – a leading manufacturer in…

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Beginners Guide to Kegel Balls

Kegel balls, also known as Orgasm Balls, Geisha Balls or Ben Wa Balls, are small, weighted marble-sized balls, available in a variety of weights and sizes but what do they do and how do you use them? Our beginners guide to Kegel Balls tells all … What are Kegel Balls for? These have been used…

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How to care for silicone sex toys

We know that after a good sessions with your favorite sex toy that all you want to is relax in bed, but it’s important that you still find the energy to clean your toy.  While some toys are porous and should be avoided as they are very difficult to clean,  which can lead to infections.…

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Beginners Guide to Prostate Massage

So, you’ve read or heard about the magical, explosive orgasms that come from prostate massage, and you want to try it out. The problem is where do you start?  Our beginners guide to prostate massage will help you explore in the most orgasmic way possible. The Prostate Before we even get started on the road…

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How to choose the perfect wand

So, you want to experience the explosive orgasms and intense vibrations that everyone is talking about but how do you choose the perfect wand for you? With all the choices available these days it can be overwhelming when you try to choose your first wand massager. To help you choose your perfect wand, we’ve put…

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Orion 2020 Sex Report

Orion are a wholesale and retail sex toy company based in Flensburg, Germany and every year they publish a Sex Report.  Their 2020 Sex Report included an additional survey to find out how sex lives changed  during the Coronavirus crisis.  So, what did this new “sex under lockdown” survey tell us? Overall Participation Over 16,400…

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Satisfyer Love Triangle

The Love Triangle is the new pocket-size pleasure product from Satisfyer.  It combines Air-pulse technology and vibrations in a compact, travel friendly design. Presented in a hard, elegant box with a hygiene seal, the packaging is as lovely as always from Satisfyer.  The box also contains a magnetic charger, safety information, user guide in various…

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Top Tips for Choosing a Prostate Massager

The pleasure of prostate play has been compared to the enjoyable sensations of g-spot play and if you have a penis, you have a prostate.  Finding that sweet, deep spot may be as difficult as finding the elusive g-spot but fear not.  Manufacturers have now created entire ranges of sex toys specifically to fit and…

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How Can Sex Toys Help you drop the sexual Shame

If you’re like many people, you’ve probably suffered through some degree of sexual shame at some stage in your life.  Maybe you’ve agonised about showing parts of your body or revealing a fantasy or desire. Maybe you’ve worried that you want sex too much or not enough. So, how can sex toys help you drop…

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23 Best Oral Sex Tips

Oral sex is all about giving and receiving and if you want to make sure your technique is the best it can be then here are our Top 23 Oral Sex Tips & Tricks. As we bring our month long Oral Sex series to an end, you might just find something you haven’t yet tried…

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Top 8 toys to use during oral sex.

As we have most definitely highlighted this month, oral sex is one of the most intimately pleasurable things to do with a partner. But, just like everything with sex, mixing it up a little is always fun and our Top 8 Toys To Use During Oral Sex will have you on top of your oral…

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Is oral sex safe during pregnancy

Believe it or not but “Is oral sex safe during pregnancy” is one of the most commonly googled questions in relation to oral sex. Sexual intercourse is perfectly safe and healthy throughout a normal pregnancy. However, your ever protruding belly can make go-to positions a little clumsy and awkward.  Some medical conditions like cervical weakness…

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Foods to change your taste for oral sex

Everyone has heard the pineapple story right?  “Eat lots of pineapple and your *vagina/semen* will taste great!”  But is it a myth or can you really change how you taste for oral sex. Before we dive in, let’s remember that our private parts are never going to taste like a vanilla latte or glazed donut…

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Guide to Rimming

Continuing our month long Oral Sex journey, we bring you everything you need to know about Rimming.  What is it? Who does it? And is it safe? What is Rimming? Rimming, (or analingus if you’re feeling posh), is oral pleasure of the anus.  It can involve licking, sucking, kissing or any other pleasurable act involving…

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Great Oral Sex for Him

Great oral sex for him has a lot of similarities to great oral sex for her. You know the saying “Don’t talk with your mouth full!” Well, there’s good reason for that.  Clear communication is key in all sexual activity so talk first before you head south. Don’t talk with your mouth full! Oral sex…

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Great Oral Sex For Her

Great oral sex for her is more than just diving down there, licking and sucking like it’s a lollypop and hoping she’ll orgasm. Great oral sex is as much about using your mouth to communicate as it is to provide pleasure. Listen & Learn Just like kissing, regular intercourse and masturbation, everyone is different and…

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Oral Sex Guide Lady Licking Lips

March is Oral Sex month so we are kicking off with a back to basics guide – What is Oral Sex? Oral Sex refers to the action of using your mouth, lips or tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals or anus. Fellatio is the oral stimulation of the penis Cunnilingus is the oral stimulation of…

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Phone Sex Tips

With the continuing global pandemic and country lockdowns, thousands of people are turning to phone sex and technology to keep their long distance relationships alive. Some of you may be old enough to remember the sexually explicit ads for phone sex in the back of the newspaper, or posters in the phone booth, and not…

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Gaia Eco-friendly Sex Toy

The Gaia range of eco-friendly sex toys from Blush Novelties has been around for a couple of year and is the first (and so far only!) biodegradable and recyclable sex toy.  For that reason, we feel it needs some more love and attention. Eco-Friendly Materials This environmentally friendly sex toy is made of a unique…

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Womanizer Sex Toy Insurance

We insure our car, our holiday, our life and now there is insurance for your sex toy! In 2019, Womanizer collaborated with Hepster and launched the first ever sex toy insurance scheme and we think it’s genius! The idea came after a colleague had her favourite Womanizer stolen whilst on holiday.  What started as an…

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Everything you need to know about kissing

Kissing is an artform, but like art it’s very personal.  Let’s be honest – we all kiss, and prefer to be kissed, in different ways,  There are people who use a lot of tongue, there are people who prefer lip teasing, and there are people who seek admiration through a peck. Some people are very…

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Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

Everyone deserves to enjoy a healthy sex life and studies show that sex can be beneficial to our health too, but what are the benefits of a healthy sex life? Sex Science Here’s the science-y bit first. When we have sex a whole heap of neurotransmitters are triggered in our brains.  These not only impact…

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Pornography rules relaxed in the UK

Great news for our friends across the ocean – Pornography rules have been relaxed in the UK. In 2019, the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) reviewed their guidelines concerning “obscene” acts in pornography in England and Wales.  These changes can now bring to an end the silliness of saying an act is illegal to show on…

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6 things to consider when buying a cheap vibrator

So, you want to buy your first or new vibrator and cash is tight? We get it, everyone’s doing it tough just now. There are a few things to consider before buying that cheap vibrator at the budget store and we’re here to help. With most highly recommended sex toy brands and models costing at…

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Beginners Guide to Spanking Black and white image of bare buttocks and fishnet stockings.

Are you new to Spanking? Trying something new can feel thrilling and terrifying at the same time.  If you don’t know where to begin, our Beginners Guide to Spanking will fill you with safe and sexy spanking tips. Spanking can be extremely pleasurable for both parties involved.  When it is consensual and sensual it can…

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Have you ever faked an orgasm

Have you ever faked an orgasm?  If the answer is Yes, then you are most definitely not alone.  A recent survey by LELO reported that over 50% of women have at some time faked an orgasm.  Not just women, but 25% of men admitted to it too. Over 50% of women have at some time…

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beginners guide to anal sex

As a beginner, anal sex can be quite scary. This Beginners Guide to Anal Sex will leave you feeling relaxed and prepared and ready for fun. The anus has many nerve endings and muscles and their stimulation can be pleasurable for both men & women but there are a few simple things to consider when…

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Glass Sex Toys

Glass sex toys/glass dildos have become increasingly popular in recent years. People continue to explore sexual pleasure and become more aware of the materials that some sex toys are actually made of. (You can read more about that here!) Glass sex toys are more than just a sex toy though, they are a like work…

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Glass sex toys

Even the simplest of sex acts deserve some hints and tips and using glass sex toys are no different.   Read on for some valuable information that will make sure you get the most pleasurable experience possible.   Safety First First of all, please remember that glass sex toys are very safe to use and are…

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Can men fake orgasm

Can Men Fake Orgasm? The question on many a woman’s lips (no pun intended!) – Can Men Fake Orgasm?  Well, according to surveys in recent years – “Hell, yes!”, would be the answer!  For a long, long time, it’s been thought that the subtle art of “faking it” was exclusively a woman’s domain but it…

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Does Good Sex Mean A Good Relationship

Is being happy in the bedroom key to having happy relationship?  Ask most relationship “experts” and they’ll say yes! Read on to find out how good sex can mean a good relationship. Sex is an expression of intimacy between a couple – you can’t physically get any closer! This intimacy can build trust and emotional…

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What is a Penis Pump

Penis Pump, Penis Enlargement Device, Vacuum Pump, Vacuum Erection Device, Vacuum Constrictive Device … the list of names goes on. We’ve all heard of them but do we actually know what they are and what they do? In short (no pun intended!), a penis pump is a device used to temporarily enlarge or enhance the…

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body safe sex toys

With approximately 65% of American women now owning a sex toy and an annual worldwide revenue in excess of $28billion (and growing!), one would assume that this booming industry is closely monitored, regulated and safe.  What if we told you that couldn’t be further from the truth? Safety Regulations Did you know that there are…

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Are you cheating if you fantasize about someone else

Sexual fantasies; the cheapest, most portable and most readily available sex aid – and, arguably, the one which causes the most distress but are you cheating if you fantasize about someone else? So, I was reading a forum where a guy mentioned he often fantasizes about someone else. (He also went on to say that…

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Fetish or paraphilia

What Is a Fetish? A fetish is described as a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked, to an abnormal degree, to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. A paraphilia is described as sexual interests in objects, situations, or individuals that are atypical or extreme. A Paraphilic Disorder…

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