How to deal with different sex drives

Some people want sex every day and some people want it once a month. So, what do you do when you’re in a relationship and your sex drives are miles apart? How to deal with different sex drives isn’t really that difficult. First of all, know that you are not alone. More often than you…

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Benefits of Masturbation

For many, the idea of touching yourself carries baggage.  Some people are told that masturbation is harmful, shameful or wrong.  Science however says the opposite – there are a whole heap of benefits of masturbation.   We’re here to arm you with all the knowledge you need. History of Masturbation Masturbation is definitely nothing new.  Prehistoric…

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Sexual Wellness products

When most people think of sex toys the first thing that comes to mind is dildos, vibrators and handcuffs.  What few of them realise is that there is whole other side to the sex toy industry that focuses on sexual wellness and education products. Leading the way now are CalExotics – a leading manufacturer in…

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Beginners Guide to Prostate Massage

So, you’ve read or heard about the magical, explosive orgasms that come from prostate massage, and you want to try it out. The problem is where do you start?  Our beginners guide to prostate massage will help you explore in the most orgasmic way possible. The Prostate Before we even get started on the road…

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How Can Sex Toys Help you drop the sexual Shame

If you’re like many people, you’ve probably suffered through some degree of sexual shame at some stage in your life.  Maybe you’ve agonised about showing parts of your body or revealing a fantasy or desire. Maybe you’ve worried that you want sex too much or not enough. So, how can sex toys help you drop…

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23 Best Oral Sex Tips

Oral sex is all about giving and receiving and if you want to make sure your technique is the best it can be then here are our Top 23 Oral Sex Tips & Tricks. As we bring our month long Oral Sex series to an end, you might just find something you haven’t yet tried…

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Is oral sex safe during pregnancy

Believe it or not but “Is oral sex safe during pregnancy” is one of the most commonly googled questions in relation to oral sex. Sexual intercourse is perfectly safe and healthy throughout a normal pregnancy. However, your ever protruding belly can make go-to positions a little clumsy and awkward.  Some medical conditions like cervical weakness…

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Foods to change your taste for oral sex

Everyone has heard the pineapple story right?  “Eat lots of pineapple and your *vagina/semen* will taste great!”  But is it a myth or can you really change how you taste for oral sex. Before we dive in, let’s remember that our private parts are never going to taste like a vanilla latte or glazed donut…

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Guide to Rimming

Continuing our month long Oral Sex journey, we bring you everything you need to know about Rimming.  What is it? Who does it? And is it safe? What is Rimming? Rimming, (or analingus if you’re feeling posh), is oral pleasure of the anus.  It can involve licking, sucking, kissing or any other pleasurable act involving…

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Great Oral Sex for Him

Great oral sex for him has a lot of similarities to great oral sex for her. You know the saying “Don’t talk with your mouth full!” Well, there’s good reason for that.  Clear communication is key in all sexual activity so talk first before you head south. Don’t talk with your mouth full! Oral sex…

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Great Oral Sex For Her

Great oral sex for her is more than just diving down there, licking and sucking like it’s a lollypop and hoping she’ll orgasm. Great oral sex is as much about using your mouth to communicate as it is to provide pleasure. Listen & Learn Just like kissing, regular intercourse and masturbation, everyone is different and…

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Oral Sex Guide Lady Licking Lips

March is Oral Sex month so we are kicking off with a back to basics guide – What is Oral Sex? Oral Sex refers to the action of using your mouth, lips or tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals or anus. Fellatio is the oral stimulation of the penis Cunnilingus is the oral stimulation of…

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Everything you need to know about kissing

Kissing is an artform, but like art it’s very personal.  Let’s be honest – we all kiss, and prefer to be kissed, in different ways,  There are people who use a lot of tongue, there are people who prefer lip teasing, and there are people who seek admiration through a peck. Some people are very…

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Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

Everyone deserves to enjoy a healthy sex life and studies show that sex can be beneficial to our health too, but what are the benefits of a healthy sex life? Sex Science Here’s the science-y bit first. When we have sex a whole heap of neurotransmitters are triggered in our brains.  These not only impact…

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beginners guide to anal sex

As a beginner, anal sex can be quite scary. This Beginners Guide to Anal Sex will leave you feeling relaxed and prepared and ready for fun. The anus has many nerve endings and muscles and their stimulation can be pleasurable for both men & women but there are a few simple things to consider when…

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Can men fake orgasm

Can Men Fake Orgasm? The question on many a woman’s lips (no pun intended!) – Can Men Fake Orgasm?  Well, according to surveys in recent years – “Hell, yes!”, would be the answer!  For a long, long time, it’s been thought that the subtle art of “faking it” was exclusively a woman’s domain but it…

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Does Good Sex Mean A Good Relationship

Is being happy in the bedroom key to having happy relationship?  Ask most relationship “experts” and they’ll say yes! Read on to find out how good sex can mean a good relationship. Sex is an expression of intimacy between a couple – you can’t physically get any closer! This intimacy can build trust and emotional…

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Are you cheating if you fantasize about someone else

Sexual fantasies; the cheapest, most portable and most readily available sex aid – and, arguably, the one which causes the most distress but are you cheating if you fantasize about someone else? So, I was reading a forum where a guy mentioned he often fantasizes about someone else. (He also went on to say that…

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