Top Tips for Phone Sex Like A Pro

Top Tips for Phone Sex Like A Pro

With the continuing global pandemic and country lockdowns, thousands of people are turning to phone sex and technology to keep their long distance relationships alive.

Some of you may be old enough to remember the sexually explicit ads for phone sex in the back of the newspaper, or posters in the phone booth, and not forgetting the horrendous costs associated with a 3 minute call.

Thankfully, things have come a long way since then and phone sex is so much easier for the ordinary man and woman.  We’re talking sexting, erotic phone calls around the globe and video calls.  Sometimes we need a little guidance on how to do phone sex right though.

History of Phone Sex

Phone sex is though to have been around since the early 1900’s but didn’t really flourish until 1977.

Gloria Leonard was one of the first mainstream porn stars and later became the editor of High Society magazine.  In a bid to promote the magazine she launched a phone sex line – a pay-per-minute service offering a recorded female voice saying a few sexy phrases.  Interest in the service peaked quickly and it became obvious that people wanted more interaction, and so the live service was born.

What is Phone Sex

In simple terms, it’s picking up the phone and having a conversation of a sexual nature with someone else.  It can be intimate or kinky, describing fantasies or role play scenarios or mutual masturbation.

Sexting carries the same principle but via text.  People often prefer this tin the beginning as it is far less intimidating.  It is a great starting point and as things heat up it still provides the opportunities to swap photos and videos.

Phone Sex Top Tips

It all sounds simple but for beginners it can be embarrassing, not knowing what to do or say. Here’s our top tips to get phone sex ready.

  1. Tech Prep

    You may think that you’re super advanced in technology but issues like poor internet connection, expired data and incompatible apps can really ruin your mood.
    Start by making sure your device is fully charged, internet connections are all working and you both know which app you’ll be on.  A bluetooth headset and microphone or ear-buds can make you feel more comfortable if you don’t want to be talking directly into the phone, and leaves your hands free for other things!

  2. Feel Sexy

    If you were preparing to have sex in real life you’d set the mood with sexy lingerie or romantic candles etc. Phone sex shouldn’t be any different.
    Flirt a little over text beforehand, swap some pictures or agree to watch a certain video you both like to get you in the mood.
    Make sure you will both have complete privacy – no screaming kids, distracting room mates or interfering pets.

  3. Be Calm

    We definitely do not recommend getting drunk beforehand.  There is nothing sexy about a slurring drunken phone call.  On the other hand, a glass of wine may help to calm your nerves, or maybe a warm bath.  Anything to allow you to feel good about you.

  4. Don’t Giggle

    Yes, it will feel weird and you will probably be blushing like a high-school teen but giggling is definitely going to dampen the mood.  Even if you feel very comfortable with the other person, your partner may think you are laughing AT them not with them.

  5. Find your Love Language

    Some people cringe at certain words.  Perhaps “boobies” makes you feel silly or “moist” makes you feel like vomiting.  If that’s you then don’t use them.  Find the style that you are both comfortable with to keep it sexy, use the language you would normally use in bed, just amp it up a little.

  6. Create a Scene

    Visual sexual stimulation can be a big part of what turns us on.  If you’re not on a video call then this can be tricky.  Try to describe what you are wearing, where you are, how you feel, what you’re doing.  Use as much description as possible to paint the picture for the other person.
    (Note: phone sex workers aren’t actually wearing see-through lingerie, or fingering themselves but they will make you believe they are!)

  7. Fill the Empty Spaces

    Not all phone sex sessions will go to plan so we recommend having some go-to phrases handy for when things get a little quiet.  Simple things that you’d say in bed anyway like, “Do you like it when I do …?”, “I taste so good”, “If you were here now I would …”

  8. Adding some Sex Toys

    With so many advances in technology now you could consider a sex toy that your partner can control via an app while you’re apart.  Try out your favourite vibrator or other sex toy during phone sex and use the opportunity to describe every little detail and sensation.  This has the benefit of keeping you both mentally connected and offers the opportunity to let your partner know exactly what you like.

Even though you may be apart there is no reason to be disconnected.  Long distance relationships are difficult but using technology and phone sex can be a fun way to keep things alive and explore each other until you can be in their arms again.

More Articles

Gaia Eco-friendly Sex Toy

Eco-Friendly Sex Toys – The Gaia

The Gaia range from Blush Novelties has been around for…

Read More
Womanizer Sex Toy Insurance

Protect Your New Womanizer with Sex Toy Insurance

Sex toy insurance – it really is a thing now!…

Read More
Everything you need to know about kissing

Everything You Need to Know About Kissing

Kissing is an artform, but like art it’s very personal. …

Read More
Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

Top 10 Health Benefits of Sex

Everyone deserves to enjoy a healthy sex life and studies…

Read More
Hands in the air breaking free from handcuffs

Pornography Rules Relaxed in the UK

Great news for our friends across the ocean – Pornography…

Read More
LED Loveheart for Valentines Day Gift Ideas

Top 5 Sexy Couples Valentine’s Gifts

If you want a little different gift this year, then…

Read More
6 things to consider when buying a cheap vibrator

6 Things To Consider Before Buying A Cheap Vibrator

So, you want to buy your first or new vibrator…

Read More
Beginners Guide to Spanking Black and white image of bare buttocks and fishnet stockings.

Beginners Guide to Spanking

Are you new to Spanking? Trying something new can feel…

Read More
I'm doing this for me don't fake orgasm

Why You Should Never Fake An Orgasm

Have you ever faked an orgasm?  If the answer is…

Read More
beginners guide to anal sex

Beginners Guide to Anal Sex

As a beginner, anal sex can be quite scary but…

Read More